Losing a baby is one of the most difficult things for any parent to go through, and while unimaginable, unfortunately, some families do experience this tragedy. No one ever gets over losing their child, which makes the anniversary of a baby’s death a very difficult time.
What’s more, for those around you, it can be difficult to know what to say on the anniversary of a baby’s death, so you may not find much support coming your way as the day looms closer. If you want to honour your child on the anniversary of their passing but aren’t sure how, we’ve shared five ways below.
1. Write A Letter To Your Baby
One of the best ways to honour your baby is to write a letter to them. You can share the joy you felt finding out you were pregnant with them or the emotions you experienced when you felt them kick inside you. You could even talk about the rush of love you had when you held them for the first time.
If your precious one was stillborn, then these could be moments you’ve imagined rather than actual events that happened. Nevertheless, it can be really rewarding for you to get these thoughts off your chest.
2. Donate To Charity
Losing a child leaves a void in your life, and it can make you feel helpless when you see the same happening to other families. So, if you’re able to donate to a charity on the anniversary of your baby’s death, this can be a fantastic way to honour your child’s legacy while also supporting someone else going through the same thing.
You could give money to one of the charities that helped you during this time, or to one you haven’t used personally but know has supported others in a similar position. Doing this can encourage other grieving parents like yourself to get the support they need.
3. Plant A Tree
A tree planted in memory of your baby is a beautiful tribute that will live on for generations to come. It can also provide you and other family members with somewhere to go when you want to remember your child and spend some time thinking about them in a quiet space.
4. Reach Out To Others
While you may want to spend some time alone on the anniversary of your child’s passing, it’s important to reach out to loved ones if you need some support. You might find it really comforting to hear their memories of your baby or child. There are also support numbers you can call if reaching out to family and friends is too difficult, such as Child Bereavement UK, which you can find out more about here.
5. Get A Memorial Keepsake
Unique urns and keepsake frames are lovely ways to remember your baby and keep them close by. At Remembered Forever, we have a number of memorial gifts for stillborn babies, including our Infant Frames and Child Frames. You can view the full range of products for lost loved ones here or click here to get in touch today.
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